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A word for stepfathers:
Be yourself, not a substitute for the father. Expect stepchildren to test your rules. Don't be afraid to say "no," but avoid getting angry. Don't take rebellion to heart; kids this age often wrestle with loyalty questions. Don't openly criticize your wife's ex-spouse, and remember also that a dose of light-heartedness will do wonders. Stepfathers who get in the rut of just having serious talks or encounters with their stepchildren risk turning them off quickly. Humor will make you more approachable and interesting. Above all, make yourself available to spend time with them.
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