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The Stress of the First Child
August 17, 2004
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More couples today are more stressed out than ever before. This could be the reason why most divorces happen in the first five years of marriage. Scientists from the University of Washington - John Gottman of the "love lab" and developmental molecular biologist John Medina - have done some fascinating new research. They’re looking into what causes stress at home and how the human body deals with it. For couples, high stress happens when they have their first child. In fact for women, satisfaction in marriage drops 75 percent in the first year after the first child is born. The good news is, this is also a time when men are most open to learning the skills of having a healthy relationship. Years ago, extended families were there to support and help out young families. The season of a new baby is a difficult time when we need a circle of support from others. But it’s also just that - a season that we can survive and actually grow through. It just takes a long-term commitment and some effort at the skills of relationship.

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