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Lessons From the Love Lab - Part 2
March 11, 2004
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Have you ever tried to calculate love? Well Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington has. He and other scientists and mathematicians at the University have figured out a mathematical formula that takes a look at how couples interact with each other. It measures the ratio of positive emotions expressed towards each other versus the negative ones. And they found that couples with a ratio of five positive emotions to every negative one are destined for a strong, loving relationship. But those couples with an equal or worse number of positive and negative emotions are very likely headed in the wrong direction. The good thing is none of us need to bone up on calculus or mathematical formulas, but we do need to think about this: are we sending positive, loving emotions to our spouse, especially while we work through our problems and conflicts?

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